I currently have magento sending Emails to the customer upon making an order, but i am not getting bcc'd or a separate email notifying me at all.

I do have all of the emails I wish to receive the email listed in Config > System > Sales Emails >

I have also read about magento forcing you to use a cron job to send the emails, but that seems to be only relevant in magento 1.9 and beyond.

All other resources I have googled in regards to this issue have discussed modifying code that is not even existent in my magento installation.

Please help