You need to create registration.php to register your theme.
Registration.php file code :
<?php
\Magento\Framework\Component\ComponentRegistrar::register(
\Magento\Framework\Component\ComponentRegistrar::THEME,
'frontend/Vendorname/themename',
__DIR__
);
After that clear the cache by running cache:clean command and check it will show in design configuration setting dropdown
Also from admin click on Content->Design->Configuration here you can see your custom theme
For more details refer this link - http://devdocs.magento.com/guides/v2.1/frontend-dev-guide/themes/theme-create.html