$attribute = Mage::getModel('eav/config')->getAttribute( Mage_Catalog_Model_Product::ENTITY ,'attribute_code');
$options = $attribute->getSource()->getAllOptions();
print_r ($options);
<select name="some name">
<?php foreach($options as $option): ?>
<option value="<?php echo $option['value'] ?>"><?php echo $option['label'] ?></option>
<?php endforeach;?>
</select>
My updated answer to you
load your table collection by
$coll = Mage::getModel('yourModel')->getCollection();
And foreach loop in your collection add all your option in $option as lable and value pair for each option
$attribute_model = Mage::getModel('eav/entity_attribute');
$attribute_code = $attribute_model->getIdByCode('catalog_product', 'your_attribute_code');
$attribute = $attribute_model->load($attribute_code);
$attribute->setData('option',$option);
$attribute->save();
Try above code and let me know if it is not working