The setting you mention is used in vendor/magento/framework/View/Element/UiComponentFactory.php
$reverseMerge = isset($componentArguments['data']['reverseMetadataMerge'])
&& $componentArguments['data']['reverseMetadataMerge'];
$bundleComponents = $this->mergeMetadata($identifier, $bundleComponents, $reverseMerge);
this will merge the already defined metadata in the vendor/magento/module-customer/view/base/ui_component/customer_form.xml
with some other metadata defined in the constructor of the data provider.
protected function mergeMetadata($identifier, array $bundleComponents, $reverseMerge = false)
{
$dataProvider = $this->getDataProvider($identifier, $bundleComponents);
if ($dataProvider instanceof DataProviderInterface) {
$metadata = [
$identifier => [
'children' => $dataProvider->getMeta(),
],
];
$bundleComponents = $this->mergeMetadataItem($bundleComponents, $metadata, $reverseMerge);
}
return $bundleComponents;
}
In the case of the documentation your data provider is vendor/magento/module-customer/Model/Customer/DataProvider.php
that inside the constructor has
$this->meta['customer']['children'] = $this->getAttributesMeta(
$this->eavConfig->getEntityType('customer')
);
$this->meta['address']['children'] = $this->getAttributesMeta(
$this->eavConfig->getEntityType('customer_address')
);
that adds some other attributes. In the case of the customer the attributes are the ones shown in blue color in the following image
