Please try below collection.
$objectManager = \Magento\Framework\App\ObjectManager::getInstance();
$parentCategoryId = 2;
$parentCategory = $objectManager->get('Magento\Catalog\Model\Category')->load($parentCategoryId);
$collection =$objectManager->create("\Magento\Catalog\Model\CategoryFactory")->create()->getCollection()->addAttributeToSelect('*')
->setOrder('position', 'ASC')
->addFieldToFilter('is_active',array("in"=>array('0', '1')))
->addAttributeToFilter('parent_id',['eq'=>$parentCategoryId]);
print_r($collection->getData());
I Hope It's Will Helpful.