youYou need to add inline style on the email template Likeoverwrite this file
<p style="text-transform: lowercase;">{{htmlescape var=$customer/app/code/core/Mage/Sales/Model/Order.name}}<php
To
/p>app/code/local/Mage/Sales/Model/Order.php
also you canand change below code to queueNewOrderEmail function in this file
/app/code/core/Mage/Sales/Model/Order.php
public function queueNewOrderEmail($forceMode = false)
{
..
..
if ($this->getCustomerIsGuest()) {
$templateId = Mage::getStoreConfig(self::XML_PATH_EMAIL_GUEST_TEMPLATE, $storeId);
$customerName = strtoupper($this->getBillingAddress()->getName());
} else {
$templateId = Mage::getStoreConfig(self::XML_PATH_EMAIL_TEMPLATE, $storeId);
$customerName = strtoupper($this->getCustomerName());
}
..
..
}